A fight at the whim of a man

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn't want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

[_Ruslana_]

How about we take this discussion in a slightly different direction and give our thoughts about when we would fight for our man?

For me there really is only one, maybe two scenarios (But scenario number two is a huge maybe).

Scenario One:

Another woman keeps propositioning your man. Your man has behaved impeccably and politely declined her advances more than once and he has been honest and kept you in the loop as to what she has been doing. The first time may of been an honest mistake, being charitable a second time might be down to our man being clumsy with his words and not spelling out he is taken. A third time? Well at this point me and her absolutely will be having a little private girl talk! And if the other woman in this scenario was known to me and I knew; she knew he was taken? Then of course there are no warnings. She has made a declaration of war and I happily accept!

Scenario Two:

Some bitch, probably at his work place is using her position to make his life a living hell. He is doing what he can while working under the confines of office politics. He approaches me and asks for my support and assistance. This is tricky, you can't just pick a fight with your man's boss. Maybe at a workplace event you can get an opportunity to speak with her woman to woman? Maybe a mutual agreement to discuss things further in more suitable setting can be agreed? Or perhaps the real answer here is that beyond love and support, a catfight with his boss would be useless. As honestly is his situation realistically going to improve if I kick his bitch bosses ass?

Oh one final caveat: In either scenario my man would be left at home, as personally inviting him to watch is indulgent and distasteful. Well at least for me

So have I missed anything girls?

Xoxo
Kate

In the first scenario, I would have a conflict with this bitch after her first attempt to flirt with my man. And I would have easily gone into a fight against her.
In the second scenario, I would act in such a way that my conflict against this bitch would not create problems at work for my boyfriend. If I was absolutely sure that my conflict against this bitch would not create problems for my boyfriend, then I would escalate the conflict against this bitch.

[Olga]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn't want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

[caryn1]

i do not mind if my boyfriend has sets up or suggest i fight someone but it has to be on my terms
i am not into boxing in anyway  nor into broken bones or blood i do not mind punch just not to the face  nor or nails rt biting there either  anyplace is ok
if she has a problem then there will be no fight

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn't want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

[Olga]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn't want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

It was just a friendly fight. We weren't trying to kill each other  There's not much to describe. We were wrestling on the ground. The usual sweaty, close-quarters brawl. I prefer standing fights. I don't like ground fighting. But I do have some favorite techniques for the ground game. The guillotine, the triangle, several choke variations. My favorite is the armbar. I know many ways to get into this hold. In this fight, the victory condition was to force my opponent to submit five times. I submitted her at least three times using an armbar.

The men watched our struggle in silence, not encouraging anyone, so as not to spoil their relationships. They only applauded when one of us executed a successful technical move.
We have a great relationship with this girl, she just knows for sure that I am stronger than her.
But the man who provoked us is a real dog (chases after every skirt). I don't date guys like that.

[man-of-sea]

I would think it. true that the premise "A fight at the whim of a man" is true look at all the MMA and UFC franchises which are predominantly male ownership and dictates women to fight to the benefit of lining the owners pocket book and to give the mostly male crowd entertainment.     

[Capguy]

I once got into an argument with a girl at the gym. It wasn't like we were fighting, just arguing in a heated voice. Then one of the men we knew there suggested we settle the dispute with a wrestling match. He, as they say, challenged us. I understood that this was manipulation on his part, but I didn't want to back down. The other girl wasn't going to back down either. So we went onto the mat and started wrestling, and the men sat around and enjoyed the spectacle. It wasn't a fight, we respected each other, it was a fair grappling match. But it was the man who pushed us into it. He took advantage of the situation, saw that we were heated up by the argument, and added fuel to the fire.

Interesting situation.  Did you win the match?  What did the guys say after?

Yes, I won. I wouldn't say it was easy. But the victory was absolute. No one would call it a draw. Well, what can the guys say? I liked it.

Great.  Congratulations.  How did the girl you beat respond?  You and her ever talk about it?  Did the guy who set it up cheer for either of you, or try to hit on you after?  On other thing - howdid you win?  Did she submit?  To what hold?

It was just a friendly fight. We weren't trying to kill each other  There's not much to describe. We were wrestling on the ground. The usual sweaty, close-quarters brawl. I prefer standing fights. I don't like ground fighting. But I do have some favorite techniques for the ground game. The guillotine, the triangle, several choke variations. My favorite is the armbar. I know many ways to get into this hold. In this fight, the victory condition was to force my opponent to submit five times. I submitted her at least three times using an armbar.

The men watched our struggle in silence, not encouraging anyone, so as not to spoil their relationships. They only applauded when one of us executed a successful technical move.
We have a great relationship with this girl, she just knows for sure that I am stronger than her.
But the man who provoked us is a real dog (chases after every skirt). I don't date guys like that.

Sound like a great match.  I would have loved to see it.  Just a couplemore questions please.  How long were you wrestling?  You said you got 5 submissions from her.  Did she get any?  Were you ever worried she might take you in front of the guys?

[NekoKitsune]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

[Olga]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

A very practical approach   

[Olga]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

A very practical approach

What about you? Would you fight over a handsome millionaire?

The chances of me meeting a handsome millionaire are so slim that I won't even discuss it.

[lumberjack66]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

A very practical approach

What about you? Would you fight over a handsome millionaire?

The chances of me meeting a handsome millionaire are so slim that I won't even discuss it.

Not sure about the chances of meeting a handsome one... but there are lots of millionaires out there.

[Olga]

Fight at the whim of a man? Of course not. I'm not some kind of toy    But to be honest, it all depends on the man. If this is a handsome millionaire, then I'm ready to fight for him with any bitch 

That makes sense. Again, we've come to the conclusion that no, although maybe, and depending on the circumstances, yes.

Well, yes, it's easy to buy a whore with money

[NekoKitsune]

I don't understand. I bet all the girls fought over boys? You probably pulled each other's hair out at school over guys. But if a guy asks you about it, you categorically refuse? What if he really loves both of you, you and your rival? He can't choose, is that so hard to imagine? If I really loved a guy, I would not hesitate to start a fight with any bitch, regardless of whether he was watching us or we met in the woods and without witnesses. I wish he was watching us, so that bitch wouldn't be able to dispute the outcome of the fight. I would make her cry and beg for mercy, make her say she'll never talk to my boyfriend again. I would want him to hear it.