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[testr]

My girlfriend seems willing to give wrestling another girl a try after I found a way to sneak it in to conversation, which has always been a huge fantasy of mine. Now the problem is getting her to act on it. What is the best way to get the ball rolling? She may be adverse to wrestling strangers for now. Thanks all

[testr]

Well when I brought it up that's issue that came up and she replied, "I dont even know which one of them would want to do that." So I'm kinda stuck. Is there a good way to push the issue or let it go until the right time?

[testr]

mat for now. see where it can go from there.

[testr]

I've never been very much into pro moves. I've always liked unscripted stuff. If i can just get the ball rollin, then whatever happens , happens - she can do whatever she feels comfortable with. I just hope it makes her want to do it more!

[testr]

That's awesome, lucky you!

[testr]

That's cool. My gf is pretty fit/tough. I'm sure she'll hold her own whatever she does.

[testr]

Ha, nearly identical physique of my girlfriend. Little powerhouse though!

[testr]

Haha maybe! I've still been dropping hints to no real action yet... I think its coming though.

[testr]

Capabilities as far as styles or moves? or

[polarbear]

The one thing that has helped me over the years is just making it something fun to do.  Usually helped that they already had a few drinks in them and then casually brought something physical up and then let it go from there.  If the conversation doesn't go to wrestling, no need to push it like just like Panther100 said before me.

[polarbear]

if that's the case, what i mentioned in my previous post has worked a good bit for me in the past.  have a friend of hers over and everybody just have some fun, maybe have a few drinks, and then somehow, you'll have to figure out what you want to do, maybe y'all see something on tv, movie, or something just casually is brought up and you have your girlfriend throw out a little tease in there and then it'll take care of itself from there.  it's just a small, fun, casual way for it to be brought up and they'll end up really bringing it up themselves and you'll just be there.  you won't say much of anything.

[testr]

Awesome feedback. Everyone was pretty much dead on with what they've said and I have just been waiting patiently and bringing it up casually as a heat check to make sure everything is still cool. Looks good. Thanks everybody!

[testr]

No no real fights - competitive but not real. As to what she's capable of - i dont know. Like i said shes athletic but has no real wrestling experience. I think i could sway her to do some skimpy outfits but i dont know about any nude. One day maybe.

[testr]

Wouldn't think it would be. I think after I see what she wants to do for the first one Ill have a real gauge for future matches.

[testr]

Good question, one that I've thought about. I think a little of both which is probably why I would prefer to see her do competitive to semi-competitive.