"private massage" no its not

steph · April 20, 2013, 08:26:26 PM

Why when your in chat and talking in a PM window and who you talking to there internet drops or the chat hiccups your massage get posted on the main chat. Its never when your chating about the weather it all ways something for the 2 in the pm (or should be) not for all of chat to read and comment on. I like all sorts from the softest cat fight to a hard roll-play but private should be private and if the internet or chat or which ever happens your pm box should just shut. No wounder people wont use pm and go to yim. Must be a easy fix i see it happen to regular.

Lauren · April 20, 2013, 09:31:30 PM

When that happens, you are the only person that can see it. Hope that makes U feel more comfortable.

Lauren · April 20, 2013, 11:20:29 PM

it's happened to all of us. First time it happened to me I was like gawd. Then I found out what happens and I was like good lol

steph · April 21, 2013, 04:16:38 AM

Quote from: Lauren on April 20, 2013, 09:31:30 PM
When that happens, you are the only person that can see it. Hope that makes U feel more comfortable.

you will know but i seen it appear in in main chat with others and had comments from main chat when its happen to me unless it changed recently. hope your right

BigDevil · April 21, 2013, 04:40:04 AM

Quote from: HellcatLaura on April 21, 2013, 04:24:28 AM

Actually, if you are in a pm window typing, and the person drops off, and you hit return, the message you're typing DOES show in the main chat window, and everyone can see it.

It happened to Steph TODAY, and we all saw it (it was about a clit protector), and she was mocked for it by several people.

It's happened to lots of us, and is unfortunate, but I doubt it's fixable.

Sorry it happened to you hon. Rest assured, though, we all have had it happen

I'm sorry to hear that happened to you steph. It has happened to me and almost everyone else that uses the room and it is embarrassing. There have been times when its happened and no one else but me has seen it and times when the whole room has. I think it has to do with timing between when they leave and you hit enter. I'm not sure on that though.

Boundfighter · April 21, 2013, 05:43:30 PM

Quote from: steph-wh on April 20, 2013, 08:26:26 PM
Why when your in chat and talking in a PM window and who you talking to there internet drops or the chat hiccups your massage get posted on the main chat. Its never when your chating about the weather it all ways something for the 2 in the pm (or should be) not for all of chat to read and comment on. I like all sorts from the softest cat fight to a hard roll-play but private should be private and if the internet or chat or which ever happens your pm box should just shut. No wounder people wont use pm and go to yim. Must be a easy fix i see it happen to regular.

Quote from: BigDevil- on April 21, 2013, 04:40:04 AM
Quote from: HellcatLaura on April 21, 2013, 04:24:28 AM
Actually, if you are in a pm window typing, and the person drops off, and you hit return, the message you're typing DOES show in the main chat window, and everyone can see it.
It happened to Steph TODAY, and we all saw it (it was about a clit protector), and she was mocked for it by several people.
It's happened to lots of us, and is unfortunate, but I doubt it's fixable.
Sorry it happened to you hon. Rest assured, though, we all have had it happen

I'm sorry to hear that happend to you Steph. It has happened to me and almost everyone else that uses the room and it is embarrassing. There have been times when its happened and no one else but me has seen it and times when the whole room has. I think it has to do with timing between when they leave and you hit enter. I'm not sure on that though.

This maybe the reason the timing between leaving the chat partner and hitting the enterbutton . This has happend to me also several times. And its a crap . Something have to be in privat and not in mainvhat. And its a crap to get mocked about this from the users in mainchat then.
I feel sorry for you Steph that this happens to you. You are a nice and polite person.

Ahh well its the same if you talk to someone in a pvt chat and another send you a pm. Sometimes you answer the wrong person with a wrong reply. For example : You get a "Hello , how are you " and you answer with . "I send my fist deep in your belly" Lol .

Lauren · April 22, 2013, 08:12:02 PM

Hey everyone, recently well like 2 days ago I found out that, what I was told about these messages isn't correct all the time. I modified Laura's post because I thought it was just another shot at a mod, ok a shot at me :p Now I have found out she was right and I'd like to take this time to apologize for that action. I hope this straightens everything out.

CashleyAshley · May 16, 2013, 09:18:55 PM

IT HAPPENS !!!! it happened to me a few days ago and its did it to me from when I first joined!!!! BDs right I think its just the timing between when they leave and you hit enter

G Star & KK · May 30, 2013, 02:36:51 PM

Quote from: Boundfighter on April 21, 2013, 05:43:30 PM

Ahh well its the same if you talk to someone in a pvt chat and another send you a pm. Sometimes you answer the wrong person with a wrong reply. For example : You get a "Hello , how are you " and you answer with . "I send my fist deep in your belly" Lol .

That happens to me way too often, if you are typing in one chat window then it shouldn't lose focus because a new one opens, and like you say it always happens at the least opportune moment.