How to make my girlfriend fight?

[Paoloitaly]

I have an uncontrollable desire to see my girlfriend fight wildly against another, But I don't know what to do, I have an ex that she met and that I sometimes talk to and she knows it, I had thought of making them conflict but I don't know how, why doesn't my ex hit on me and i can't do it with her otherwise my girlfriend would leave me, any advice??

[TheRef]

My advice is to accept that some fantasies will always remain fantasy. You can ask her to fight for you but trying to force it to happen probably will not go how you imagine. Reality can be a bitch and things can spin out of control quickly!

We all have kinks, fetishes and desires so no judgement from me but if yours truly is "uncontrollable" as you say then I strongly suggest seeing a therapist.

[TheRef]

What would you do if they fought, and the ex won?

Just one of many unintended consequences reality can throw at you. 

[jessiefite]

I have an uncontrollable desire to see my girlfriend fight wildly against another, But I don't know what to do, I have an ex that she met and that I sometimes talk to and she knows it, I had thought of making them conflict but I don't know how, why doesn't my ex hit on me and i can't do it with her otherwise my girlfriend would leave me, any advice??

I want to echo the wise responses above, to reinforce them.  First, if fighting is not her choice, then you need to stop trying to make her fight.  Coercion is immoral.  It must be only by her own choice, or let it go.

Second, if you did prevail upon her to fight someone, are you prepared for the consequences?  Serious injuries?  Resentment from the losing woman, maybe your wife, who might then choose to leave you?

Perhaps you could defuse the situation by not involving her in the fight, but maybe hire two willing women to fight, and maybe she would agree to watch the fight with you.

Be moral and be mindful.

[SexyRenee]

I have an uncontrollable desire to see my girlfriend fight wildly against another, But I don't know what to do, I have an ex that she met and that I sometimes talk to and she knows it, I had thought of making them conflict but I don't know how, why doesn't my ex hit on me and i can't do it with her otherwise my girlfriend would leave me, any advice??

"I have an ex that she met and I sometimes talk to...."


You are an idiot. ?

Enjoy being single

[daz]

Make? Are you being serious?  My wife discovered my interest after a mutual work colleague who knew I was a fan of pro wrestling suggested having a match for my entertainment.  My wife was ok with the fantasy, but the reality was that even in an arranged match, my wife would have gotten hurt. So whilst we shared fantasies about her wrestling, and on a few occasions she looked into having a scripted match, I never agreed as I had no interest in seeing her get hurt or messing up our relationship.  The fact you used the term MAKE was rather disturbing.

[Horny-Jew]

Of course, he's NOT serious. It's a fantasy. In real life, you would never suggest that. Since this entire message board is a fantasy, one can have any fantasy you can think of.

[HooDoo]

I have an uncontrollable desire to see my girlfriend fight wildly against another, But I don't know what to do, I have an ex that she met and that I sometimes talk to and she knows it, I had thought of making them conflict but I don't know how, why doesn't my ex hit on me and i can't do it with her otherwise my girlfriend would leave me, any advice??

Hey,I think the people that have already posted are correct and more eloquent than I can say. I only ant to provide a personal experience.

So my wife and I have played with this for years and she enjoys it when I whisper when we have sex that I will fight for her and protect her. My wife was turned on by the thought of having a catfight with my ex-girlfriend. That being said, fantasy and reality are different.

A couple of years ago my wife said that she wanted to have a catfight, not just for me, but her own curiosity. The only condition was the it had to be someone she liked and someone she trusted. Her cousin was willing to go for it, it was fun for all of us animist important it was safe.

This past year a few days before Lunar New Year my wife and I were at 99 Ranch Market together some vegetables and sausage.My X was there and sat knew you went to Japan to chase this bitch!" (Which was not true, story for another time.) My wife said," Leave my husband alone and stay away from us!" At hat point m X said, "Wanna meet me outside?" Wife replies,"I'll meet you outside bitch!" 'My X walks outside, my wife goes to follow, I grab my wife's arm and tell her,"let it go baby." M y wife scolded me and said, "Don't interfere." At that point I realized that this has little to do with me. By the time my wife & I got outside I was thankful to see my X being driven away by her friend.This was outside 0f a mini-mall, not soft landings. If either one hits the concrete in the wrong way, it could be lethal and I do not want that for either of them.

Als0, women also have a fight fetish. My first wife would constantly provoke jealousy at a bar or party.I broke my right hand at least 3 times and left at least 2 times on some guys head. Then driving home with a swollen painful hand my ex-wife would tell me why " jealous asshole " I amve sahahae  But after we showered she wanted to sex.

[Horny-Jew]

HooDoo - You should have done more to stop it. How would have felt if your wife or ex had gotten seriously hurt ?

[F4UCORSAIR]

   I'm not here to bash Paoloitaly , but The Ref, as did others, made some good comments.  Reality can be a bitch sometimes. I was fortunate to have had a wife who indulged my fantasy. Forcing people to do things never turns out well.

[HooDoo]

I have an uncontrollable desire to see my girlfriend fight wildly against another, But I don't know what to do, I have an ex that she met and that I sometimes talk to and she knows it, I had thought of making them conflict but I don't know how, why doesn't my ex hit on me and i can't do it with her otherwise my girlfriend would leave me, any advice??

Als0, women also have a fight fetish. My first wife would constantly provoke jealousy at a bar or party.I broke my right hand at least 3 times and left at least 2 times on some guys head. Then driving home with a swollen painful hand my ex-wife would tell me why " jealous asshole " I amve sahahae  But after we showered she wanted to sex.

Although your wife might be a rare exception, I think it's more accurate to say that women have a SAFETY fetish.  Women get turned on by their man fighting because it shows you will keep them safe.

Sorry, for it to happen so many times, she got off on it.

[HooDoo]

HooDoo - You should have done more to stop it. How would have felt if your wife or ex had gotten seriously hurt ?

Bro, if they actually caught up to each other, I would not have allowed them to fight, especially on concrete. That being said, I probably would have to pepper spray both of them.

[panoskl2003]

First of all if she likes it she will do it but the truth is that this is a not common thing for women so I don't believe she would fo it.
Then the best scenario for you is that she loves you so much that she would try it for you!
For this scenario to happen try to speak with her first about fantasies in general. What she likes and what you like. Then you could bring in discussion the fem wrestling fantasy. You could even show her a video that you like BUT not something hard or extreme, And then you must make her realize that it;s not other women you want to watch fighting as your fantasy. But it's her you fantasize. Show her a headscissor for example and say to her that you are thinking of her doing it. Let her deside if she wants to try. And never but never against someone you both know.
Perhaps this will give her something to think. Perhaps not. Don;t press her too much, The only thing for sure is that now she knows what you fantasize.

[finglock]

If this is not a fantasy post, (which it most certainly is) i'd advise against mixing up fetish with reality. That doesn't mean you cannot at least try to get a part of your fantasy to be played out.

You obviously forget about your gf fighting an ex, there is no realistic way that this goes well.

From your username i figure that you live in Italy. Plenty of session girls there. AFTER you talk it through with your gf, you approach one and you ask her to have a fantasy, semi competitive QUARTER competitive perhaps, match with your gf.

That way you minimize the risk of injuries since there's a professional involved and you also avoid animosity and hard feelings (no real antagonism, you guys don't know the girl, won't see her again etc).