I saw different stakes , for me most humiliate stake is sexual domination, what do u think?
I've seen a lot of stakes some good &some bad, as for me my worst stake is when I loose i'm stripped named and totally dominated from head to toe, my worst and most painful was losing to two lesbian girls after they beat me up they pined me down while one girl dripped hot candle wax into my bellybutton
So I'd agree to being stripped thing as the worst. Though I'll see your story and raise you one better. Watched a wrestling match one time. In bikinis loser stripped and had to eat pussy. Then. We were in a hole in the wall boxing gym that one of the spectators was an instructor at hence the after hours fight. Winner kicked the loser out in the middle of December naked with her keys. She has to run down this back alley. Come to find out their may have been exterior cameras on one of the other businesses. We never heard if they caught anything.
Worst loss ever imo.
I am able to speak from a male perspective that has been in stakes matches. I agreed sexual domination is the worst and if the stakes include winner gets choice and winner decides when to quit it is ultimate humiliation. I have been there irl.
The match never happened. But a work colleague once suggested to my late wife they have a match for my entertainment with the winner getting me for the night. My wife knew she would lose and was humiliated as a result especially as it really turned her on.
For me one of the most if not the most, is being on all 4s winner straddles your back and milks your boobs (even if not lactating) then gets you on your back and facets you while wearing your bra
I have neither the time nor the writing ability to be able to adequately answer what is an interesting question but I want to give it a go.
For me fighting is not simply about testing yourself against someone else or hurting someone you don't like although those can definitely be elements about it. It's about that rare time when you can, for once, let everything out, where you can break free of all (or at least most) rules. That freedom is exhilarating and once you're in that place with someone else and that you have both given it everything that is when a victory really feels like a triumph and a defeat truly hurts and humbles.
After a fight a winner can pile more misery on the loser with some stakes or something that wasn't planned but for me the biggest humiliation is that someone else saw me 'go to that place' but still came out on top, that's the sort of thing which stays in your head long after physical wounds have disappeared.
Quote from: Jane_M on October 14, 2019, 08:03:07 PM
Three years ago, I lost a fight. This fucking bitch took a photo of me when I lay beaten on the floor and sent it to my boyfriend. I am still very ashamed and unpleasant for that stake.
That's too bad. it was bad enough that you were beaten to the point you were still on the floor. That must have been one of your worst losses.
Not sure if scripted matches count as stakes, but I had some humiliation in those