Two things.. how to share my love for catfights with my girlfriend? & if possible for a playful fight with a friend?
Well, I confessed that I liked watching ladies wrestling and had a fantasy of watching her try it. It was nerve wracking and took a lot of working up too as I had no idea how she would take this rather unique fetish. In the end I just came out with it. Like a band-aid rip!
I'm very lucky, in that she wasn't disgusted by the idea. She was curious about this scene rather than annoyed and so I told her about this site, and about the 'amateur scene'. We browsed the site together, chatted to various people and she decided that it's not for her (fair enough). She's happy to entertain me though with chat and watching wrestling (not catfight) videos and will even occasionally visit the chatroom with me. I'll probably never get to see IRL, but at least she knows it's something I'm into and I live in hope!
Yora you did not mention that since you told her you dont have to worry about hiding it from her in the future, it now in the open. I think that take a lot of weight off your shoulders too. I do believe you handled it well, not every woman is open and willing.
Good point! That's probably the biggest relief, no need to hide the interest anymore, and it felt to good to confess. The reaction was much better than I expected!
I don't push the issue or bring it up often, I let her take the lead on things. It's great when she suggests visiting the chatroom or asks if I've found any new fun videos. Still living in hope of some irl fun though!
I am still so scared to share.
I want to drop a hint beforehand. I wonder how to do that just to get an idea if it interests her...
@Yora how often she brings out this topic?
I completely understand, and you have to go at your and your wifes speed , dopn't rush it.
I just want to initiate by dropping a hint... But how to do that?
How often does she bring it up? Not nearly often enough for my liking! But after a few drinks, when she wants to get my motor running, she knows what does it.
How did you start? Did she discover it by herself?
Quote from: indianguy123 on November 09, 2017, 08:09:22 PM
I just want to initiate by dropping a hint... But how to do that?
For me it was while we where talking about fetishes, I brought up the subject of unusual fetishes, asked her if she had any or had ever wanted to try anything new we may not have thought off and took it from there.
I will try that.
Did she had any??
Quote from: indianguy123 on November 09, 2017, 08:22:19 PM
I will try that.
Did she had any??
Well, that's a whole other story! ;)
Mind sharing that :D just to make the thread interesting maybe??
I actually convinced my girlfriend (who is now my wife) to wrestle one of her friends. This was, of course, before I revealed my fetish to her. First rule: Alcohol helps definitely helps! We were all out at a bar and her friend was staying over with us that night anyway. I think UFC was on TV and that's how we entered the discussion. They wouldn't fight so I asked if they'd ever just wrestle. They just laughed, so I jokingly said, "OK! Wrestling match tonight when we get back!". Everyone forgot about it except me of course. When we nearly arrived at our place in the taxi I reminded them about wrestling. We were all drunk and having a good time. My girlfriend's friend shouted from the front that it was on! My girlfriend was sitting next to me in the back and whispered in my ear, "she's bigger than me, what if I lose?" (she's quite petite). I told her it didn't matter and to try her best. It started with some arm wrestling with another friend who didn't want to wrestle, and then we got into the playful wrestling match. Best thing is that I got everything on video so I can relive it whenever I want to :-D. Unfortunately, before you ask, I don't think my wife would approve of me sharing it publicly.
Another bad thing that came out of it was that the friend she was wrestling rolled her ankle and it was sprained pretty bad. To this day whenever I mention her wrestling again she says she doesn't want to roll her ankle like her friend...still working on getting her over that fear!
Makes me
Wonder..Should one reveal it beforehand of maybe after a playful wrestling with a friend??
Definitely after. After telling my wife about my fetish and then talking about wrestling she seems less likely to do it. She thinks that I'd be more into the other girl than her, and is bothered by the fact that another female is involved in getting me aroused.
Fair enough... Point noted then 😁
We are going on a trip with another female friend joining us for a night. Any suggestions? The
Don't go in with expectations. You'll push the idea too much. It helped me to "play it cool" as the saying goes. Like I mentioned, I used something as a segway into the topic of playful wrestling. You might want to start there. Whether it's the UFC on the bar TV in my case or discussing a show/movie you recently watched with a catfight scene in it. Be subtle and be tactful about it. One time I just got an arm wrestling match out of it, but hey you take what you can get. After telling my wife about everything I have yet to get anything going except for the occasional comments, so best of luck to you!
Thank you. Hope it helps :)