I'm sure this question has been asked before. Why do so many husbands get a thrill out of seeing their wives fighting? After all, this is the woman they married, the mother of their children.
Why do men crave the thought of pitting their wife against another woman ? Curious to find out what your feedback is.
As far back as I can remember I have been fascinated by women wrestling and have been attracted to assertive women. I just love the thought of two confident assertive women of similar age, height and weight wrestling. Each lady trying to dominate the other, nothing too rough, no hair or striking. I am lucky to have married a beautiful woman who is willing to indulge my fantasy. Indeed we will be in London on 15 august to fight another couple where my wife will go up against another wife in a wrestling match. I cannot wait.
I love watching a good catfight, but wouldn't want my wife to be one of the women involved.
THIS IS A SUBJECT THAT HAS EXCITED ME SINCE I FIRST GOT MARRIED AND MY WIFE SAID SHE WANTED TO TURN ME ON BY FIGHTING. WE MADE IT SAFE,SEXY,AND IT FULLFILLED MY GREATEST FANTASY. I HAVE BEEN A CATFIGHT FAN FOR YEARS BUT WHEN SHE FOUND OUT AND SAID SHE WOULD LOVE TO DO IT I REALLY PURSUED IT. WE DIDNT HAVE THE NET WHEN WE GOT THIS GOING,WASNT AROUND. SO I HAD TO GO TO FRIENDS OR GUYS I KNEW TO FIND HER OPPONENTS. AND I REALLY GOT A RUSH OUT OF TALKING TO OTHER HUSBANDS AND MOST FOUND IT EXCITING TO GET THE WIVES TOGETHER. WASNT ALWAYS SUCESSFUL BUT I HAVE ENJOYED MY SHARE OF ARRANGED FIGHTS WITH MY WIFE. SHE HAS EVEN BEEN TURNED ON FROM THE BUILDUP , THE SEXY CHAT AND THE FIGHT ITSELF. SHE HASNT FOUGHT IN A WHILE BUT I DONT PUSH HER BECAUSE SHE HAS GIVEN ME SO MANY FANTASIC MEMORIES. SHE STILL HAS HER WAYS TO TURN ME ON WITH WIFE FIGHT CHAT. ANYONE WHO SHARES THIS FEELING AND WANTS TO CHAT AND EVEN SHARE FIGHT EXPERIENCES LOOK ME UP. ENJOY THE PICS.
Truth is.....I don't.
I would be too scared of her getting really hurt.
However........she can handle herself and is happy to tell me about what would happen if she fought this woman or that woman.
Plus she has a mountain of tales from her schooldays, involving nothing herself and her classmates.
She will also talk about our lady friends and female family members scrapping.
Yes......I am a VERY lucky guy!!!
Due to her feelings on this matter, I can't really even fantasize about my wife fighting or wrestling. I would also fear her being hurt. I did have a lover once who was open to the concept and even agreed to wrestle/rules catfight if we could find a lady we both were comfortable with. Never happened. Oh well.
I have to admit, I do fantasize my wife in a catfight, especially with certain women I know. These fights would be mostly intense wrestling matches with it lasting for a good 5-10 minutes with the fight ending because both women would be tired. My wife would win anyway. And I would always have them fighting wearing skirts, blouses, and pantyhose as in a office fight. Or maybe at a semi-formal party where they both are in evening dresses and pantyhose and getting into a fight.
My wife grew up in the Bronx and had a few fights, one in particular with a girl in gym class. My wife beat her bad. Then 10 years ago, while working for a bank, her and another woman didn't get along at all. After 6-7 weeks, they had a huge argument at a staff meeting where they almost came to blows. As much as I fantasized her fighting the other woman, I was glad it didn't happen. They had so much dislike for each other, had they fought, both of them would have gotten hurt. My wife would have won, but I wouldn't want her to get hurt.
I think it's a somewhat universal fantasy that the woman you love wants you bad enough that she's willing to fight for you. My favorites are arranged fights. I like it best when the two women don't even know each other, they're just meeting for the sole purpose of fighting each other.
Sure, it's very selfish, but most of life's pleasures are selfish.
It would have to be a rules catfight for me, I think is is so horny that 2 women who don't know each other and have no animosity towards one another would both be willing to meet and fight, with rules, just because their husbands have asked them to do it.
I also like the more mature women, so women in their fifties , in skirt blouse nylons and suspenders would be my ideal fight.
Quote from: Van on August 11, 2015, 09:23:49 PM
I would have to agree with Mr. Cavalier. The whole idea of a " CatFight " is two Ladies fighting naked over cock. If you talk about any other kind of fight? It is just that a plain simple fight.
Truer words were never spoken. A cat-fight over a man is the ultimate type of female fight. My wife has fought for me countless times, and each fight just gets hotter and hotter. My sex drive after watching my wife in a catfight, win or lose, is thru the roof. I relive the fight over in my mind as I make love to her. Knowing how her catfighting affects me, my wife will even whisper details of the fight in my ear as I'm fucking her. I'm getting horny now just writing about this.
Quote from: Van on August 12, 2015, 10:56:13 PM
This is what CatFighting is all about!
I guess U and Lucky summarized it that well , we can call it quits here. aint get no better comments;-)
Well I don't think I would like her to get badly hurt or anything and I don't know if she can fight but I would enjoy seeing her involved in a hair pulling cloths tearing fight and being stripped toples or nude and helpless
It's not necessarily a craving. It's more on the order of curiosity or creative imagination. Whether the wife admits it or not, she's wondered how you would account for yourself in a fight and of course how she'd respond. We've all given place to such imaginings. Sometimes it becomes a matter of reality and then you find out how it resolves itself. I'm not one that wants to see a woman get pulverized in a fight, but I like to see some normal aggression and that means that self defense may be in order on her part.
i enjoy watching my wife beating my friends wifes to show she is tougher. i like to c some of my friends wifes topless.
YOU ARE RIGHT DJP60, WATCHING MY WIFE FIGHT A FRIENDS WIFE IS HOT, ESPECIALLY IF SHE WINS. I ALWAYS SET MY WIFES FIGHTS UP WITH BUDDIES WIVES. SO HOT TO KNOW HOW SEXY THEY DRESSED TO FIGHT FOR US IN PRIVATE AND REALLY GO AT IT.
This is not a plug for Joan Wise, I have no affiliation with her, but years ago, Penthouse Forum (the little book on the newsstand) ran a story about how her husband loved to watch women fight. His second wife beat his first wife and then Joan beat her. I still think that's sexy as hell.
Quote from: Mr. Cavalier on September 01, 2015, 06:02:47 AM
This is not a plug for Joan Wise, I have no affiliation with her, but years ago, Penthouse Forum (the little book on the newsstand) ran a story about how her husband loved to watch women fight. His second wife beat his first wife and then Joan beat her. I still think that's sexy as hell.
Hi Mr. Cav................nice to know you're into wife on wife cat-fights. Do you speak from experience ?
AS TO "OUR WIVES FIGHTING" COMMENT 2 WIVES FIGHTING IN AN ARRANGED FIGHT WITH HUSBANDS WATCHING IS THE ULTIMATE. MY WIFES FIRST WAS AT 19 WHEN SHE FOUGHT MY BUDDIES 19 YR OLD WIFE IN STRING BIKINIS. I WAS NEVER MORE EXCITED AT THAT TIME IN MY LIFE BEFORE. AS A CATFIGHT FAN SINCE I WAS 7 YRS OLD THIS WAS A DREAM COME TRUE. I REALLY NEVER KNEW HOW EXCITED WATCHING 2 WOMEN LET ALONE MY WIFE AND MY BUDDIES WIFE WAS. 30 YRS AGO IT HAPPEN AND SHE HAS HAD MANY MORE FOR ME SINCE. LOVED EVERYONE OF THEM BUT THAT FIRST ONE MADE IT FEEL SO SPECIAL. REMEMBER IT SO WELL. LOVE THIS TOPIC.
Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 02, 2015, 06:45:13 PM
Quote from: Mr. Cavalier on September 01, 2015, 06:02:47 AM
This is not a plug for Joan Wise, I have no affiliation with her, but years ago, Penthouse Forum (the little book on the newsstand) ran a story about how her husband loved to watch women fight. His second wife beat his first wife and then Joan beat her. I still think that's sexy as hell.
Hi Mr. Cav................nice to know you're into wife on wife cat-fights. Do you speak from experience ?
Most men are not as "Lucky" as you my friend. I married young and it didn't last. Most of the fights I've seen are between strippers, very enjoyable to me.
I'm so glad that I posed this question to the forum. It's amazing to learn all the varying reasons why husbands get all horny if their wives get themselves into cat-fights with other men's wives. In many cases it seems that even the notion of the wife fighting another female can bring a husband to the point of some serious arousal.
Another thing I'm curious about is how many of you husbands have admitted this obsession with cat-fighting to your spouse ?
I only know that in my own marriage, I coaxed my husband into telling me about his fascination with cat-fighting many years ago, and I've used that knowledge by incorporating cat-fighting into our sex-life very successfully.
Quote from: karenfighting81 on September 12, 2015, 04:36:40 AM
I honestly think at this point in my life I have bigger wars with single ladies particularly middle aged women. This afternoon I was grabbing a few items at CVS and the cashier was a middle aged woman who was in good shape. We smiled and gave each other pleasantries but really you could tell there was major tension between us. By the end we were totally eying each other up and I didn't know why at first but after I began to drive home it begin to hit me. She didn't have any jewelry and I got the feeling her life hasn't turned out the way she imagined. Meanwhile I was coming from work dressed to the nines. She also saw the pictures of my family that are in my wallet. If she could she love to fight me and take anything/everything she could from me. She fight like a wild woman just like the blonde slutty stripper who kick my ass did a few years ago. She fight with nothing to lose. Meanwhile I have everything to lose and have to take my game to new heights if I want to survive.
Wow Karen. Thanks for sharing this with us. Gives us something to think about. You picked up a lot of detail as you were in line with the cashier. It actually makes me think of a fight story scenario. Funny the things that pop into our heads at different times. So, do you think you might have been able to take her?
Most men either make on their own or they don't. For women, if you don't do well on your own, you can always marry well. I always spoil the woman I'm with and I know their girl friends react to that. It's like "why her and not me?" I'm sure the cashier was thinking that.
I ran into a girl I used to fool around with in high school who was working as a hotel maid. I could tell she wanted to run and hide, but I was glad to see her and let her know that. The woman I was with acted like this girl didn't exist. I couldn't help but think the only difference between the two women was me.
How awesome to have your wife or girlfriend a willing part of your fantasies. My 49 year old girlfriend absolutely loves the idea. She knows I do not want to see her ever hurt but would love to see her take on another woman in a rules catfight with an erotic finish. She also knows I like to watch two women really go at it as well. Loves to discuss this with me and loves to see what she can do to me discussing it. Said she would love to be in a rules catfight for me and knows that I wouldn't care if she won or lost.......we have discussed both in scenarios. She is confident in her body and loves the idea of men comparing two women's bodies. It is all about her in the end and loves that whatever I come up with that turns me on involves her.
it is just a fantasy, and my wife takes the champion of my dreams. She almost always wins.
Hey guys you are like that such kind of wives ..
Quote from: bigguy1031 on September 13, 2015, 08:24:52 AM
it is just a fantasy, and my wife takes the champion of my dreams. She almost always wins.
Do you only get turned on if she wins? If she loses, would you like to screw the winner?
My gf knows that I don't care if she wins or loses, she is very sexy in both positions. Of course she'd prefer to win.
Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.
I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.
Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 20, 2015, 07:00:33 AM
Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.
I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.
as usual, i go along with your statement. Unfortunately I m with my current gf not that long. thing is i guess it is right to explore the "normal" sexlife first before i start my approaches step by step with my fetish regarding the catfight stuff
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Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 20, 2015, 07:00:33 AM
Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.
I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.
as usual, i go along with your statement. Unfortunately I m with my current gf not that long. thing is i guess it is right to explore the "normal" sexlife first before i start my approaches step by step with my fetish regarding the catfight stuff
Corbin, try gently getting her to unveil her sexual fantasies to you. After you both have discussed them, she will more than likely wish to know yours. Try not to be too over-anxious at first. Break her in easy. Chances are, if she sees, first hand, how much the subject excites you, it just may excite her too.
Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 22, 2015, 06:15:24 AM
Quote from: Corbin2012 on September 20, 2015, 08:56:02 AM
Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 20, 2015, 07:00:33 AM
Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.
I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.
as usual, i go along with your statement. Unfortunately I m with my current gf not that long. thing is i guess it is right to explore the "normal" sexlife first before i start my approaches step by step with my fetish regarding the catfight stuff
Corbin, try gently getting her to unveil her sexual fantasies to you. After you both have discussed them, she will more than likely wish to know yours. Try not to be too over-anxious at first. Break her in easy. Chances are, if she sees, first hand, how much the subject excites you, it just may excite her too.
yeap, that is is a good suggestion. Had this already on my mind in a way. i dont wanna get caught roughly by her detecting hidden material or me browsing here (among other sites) in case of living together, thats for sure. letting her disclose her arousing fanatsies first hand is a valueable point.
I completely agree with CF Supporter and Anne........a few words can sure go a long way without actually fighting.
Quote from: CFsupporter on September 23, 2015, 05:32:21 PM
I showed my husband this post. He enjoyed reading the responses. While he does not want to see me get hurt or even get into a real street catfight, his biggest turn-on is having me go up against another wife in an arranged wrestling match or catfight with rules. He says that the buildup even weeks before it happens "keeps him riled up"--his words. And I always add to that by telling him what I am thinking about my upcoming opponent and what I plan on doing to her, etc.
We also commonly play this game where we will see another attractive female out in public and either he or I will nudge the other and say something to get a fantasy conversation started. He may say something like "See that gal over there Crissy? She made a pass at me last week." Or I may get it started by saying "I wonder if that bitch wants to step into the lady's room with me." Things like that. He loves it and I love doing that to him. One can keep the sparks flying by merely having fun by making up scenarios and going with it. It works well for us! Keep life fun!
I truly like this scenario of letting the catfight fantasies and the competiton between two women in generell delve into daily life such as workplace or when enyoing outdoor activities
from where you guys find such kind of wives?:)
Great topic Maureen. For me there is just a strong primal arousal seeing two women getting catty and having a physical confrontation. Of course when it's my woman, due to the emotions and feelings I have for her, that primal arousal only escalates exponentially. It's the psychological aspect of having my woman fight another woman in front myself and the other's man to find out who's more woman. I don't think I can compare that rush of competition and anticipation to see who the better woman is. Watching my girl strain and flex and battle, getting physical and showing her strength is simply an amazing turn on. Lucky for me, I have a woman who does arranged catfights irl.
Quote from: CFsupporter on September 23, 2015, 05:32:21 PM
We also commonly play this game where we will see another attractive female out in public and I may get it started by saying "I wonder if that bitch wants to step into the lady's room with me." Things like that. He loves it and I love doing that to him. One can keep the sparks flying by merely having fun by making up scenarios and going with it. It works well for us! Keep life fun!
My wife does this for me. It certainly works for us without anyone getting hurt.
Quote from: hunter85 on September 24, 2015, 01:42:49 PM
from where you guys find such kind of wives?:)
They are out there Hunter. You'd be surprised how many mature women are willing to do or say anything to get the biggest boner their man can achieve. As a matter of fact, the more mature the wife, the more desperate she is to keep her husband interested in her. After long marriages, a good number of men will start to wander if the wife doesn't hold his attention. After 30+ years of marriage myself, I can't tell you how thrilling it is for me to hear my wife ask me who I'd like to see her catfight over my cock. When she's not fighting , or passing catty remarks to other wives, she knows how much I love a nasty catfight story whispered in my ear while I'm banging away at her hot pussy. To me, it's the missing ingredient that keeps me cumming home to her.
My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it. I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.
Quote from: titwiler on September 27, 2015, 06:46:03 AM
My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it. I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.
That can be arranged.
wives fight is more deviant and that is why more exciting
Quote from: mauler maureen on September 27, 2015, 07:19:52 AM
Quote from: titwiler on September 27, 2015, 06:46:03 AM
My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it. I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.
That can be arranged.
You're the best Maureen. It just happened again an hour ago. I just wanted a few words. Your husband's name should be LuckyLuckyLucky!!!Oday.
I have done a lot of thinking (including years of counseling) on this subject. First it is entirely natural seeing members of the opposite sex fight is a turn on and is for a huge part of the population, both male and female. Plenty of women get aroused seeing men fight whether in a bar or a boxing right. Why wouldn't/shouldn't it work the other way? For most of us men, this has been a nearly life long fantasy. Of course it is natural that one of the women we are fantasizing about would be our wife. Would our wives prefer we fantasize about other women? Now that doesn't mean we want to see them hurt. I have actually stopped my wife from fighting because I don't want her hurt or embarrassed. But a rules match in private? That would be another thing.
What I think is an equally interesting question is why so many women refuse to have anything to do with it? They tell us they love us and want to turn us on. We tell them our number one lifelong fantasy and they will have nothing to do with it. They won't try it. They won't experiment with it. They won't talk about it. Nothing. It would be different if I were in the minority on that, but I would guess the vast majority of women refuse to have anything to do with it. Probably 80% of the women we love will have nothing to do with it, 18% will talk about it or take advantage of it in some way. Maybe 2% actually do it? Reversing the rolls is there anything comparable our wives might tell us was a turn on that 80% of us would say absolutely not too? We all have thresholds. But a friendly wrestling match with another person? A boxing match? Leaning over and whispering in her ear "I would totally kick his ass." I think most of us would go a hell of a lot further than that to drive our women wild.
Interesting take Lumberjack. While some say it's the type of woman I think it also has to do with how much she is into her guy, even if married. I'm not saying this to be boastful but I've never had trouble with women in my life and have had exes who have done rules catfights for me that I honestly don't think most other guys would have been able to have them agree.
I say this from experience and having been told several times "I'd do things for you I wouldn't have dreamed of for other guys". This goes beyond catfights. I would suggest most guys need to work on their seduction skills and I don't mean pick-up, I mean truly seducing your woman to make her feel like she is the only and most beautiful woman in the world in your eyes. If you've made her feel like no other man has it's almost certain she will do just about anything to please you.
~Scott
I think a lot of it has to do with opening up to the wife or gf about those fantasies. I don't believe a lot of men do, out of fear. I would find it hard to be with a woman who wasn't open to my catfight fantasies, whether she actually fought for me or not. I enjoy sharing that with a woman and want her to enjoy it. Also makes me open to whatever she might be into because I want her to feel the same way I do.
Thank you Anne
It took me years of asking just to get an idea of what her secret fantasies are. Once I had an idea I had her browse fetish lists on clips sites and found some things that made her squirm. I would do anything to get her where she needs to be and I have been gently nudging her toward my desires. Knowing that it worked for you gives me hope. I will keep trying.
Lumberjack hit it on the head, My wife found out before we were married and told me immediately NO. NO only NO but HELL no. She could never do that. Ok I knew going in, still we have now got to the "It's perverted". I can't change the things that excite me and I have done everything I can to please her but this is not going to change and it does affect other facets of the relationship. I can't say being called a pervert by the one you love is a good thing or knowing this is between us but I love her and as Barb said years ago, you will change the relationship or live with it. So I live in this world in secret and hope. I used to put her in the fantasy but now I can't even do that so....
Good thread Maureen.
Quote from: colt 45 on September 29, 2015, 06:46:33 PM
Lumberjack hit it on the head, My wife found out before we were married and told me immediately NO. NO only NO but HELL no. She could never do that. Ok I knew going in, still we have now got to the "It's perverted". I can't change the things that excite me and I have done everything I can to please her but this is not going to change and it does affect other facets of the relationship. I can't say being called a pervert by the one you love is a good thing or knowing this is between us but I love her and as Barb said years ago, you will change the relationship or live with it. So I live in this world in secret and hope. I used to put her in the fantasy but now I can't even do that so....
Good thread Maureen.
Colt, don't give up on her. As she gets older, her feelings may change. I know that being called a pervert by your own wife has to be humiliating, but shame on your wife for making you feel that way. Too bad you can't expose her to FCF.com so she can see for herself how many "normal" men are obsessed with catfights.
I have heard of marriage counselors who recommend that both partners admit their fetishes and fantasies to one another, and that to keep the marriage fires burning, take part in the dreams of your spouse.
Quote from: mauler maureen on September 30, 2015, 05:07:12 AM
Quote from: colt 45 on September 29, 2015, 06:46:33 PM
Lumberjack hit it on the head, My wife found out before we were married and told me immediately NO. NO only NO but HELL no. She could never do that. Ok I knew going in, still we have now got to the "It's perverted". I can't change the things that excite me and I have done everything I can to please her but this is not going to change and it does affect other facets of the relationship. I can't say being called a pervert by the one you love is a good thing or knowing this is between us but I love her and as Barb said years ago, you will change the relationship or live with it. So I live in this world in secret and hope. I used to put her in the fantasy but now I can't even do that so....
Good thread Maureen.
Colt, don't give up on her. As she gets older, her feelings may change. I know that being called a pervert by your own wife has to be humiliating, but shame on your wife for making you feel that way. Too bad you can't expose her to FCF.com so she can see for herself how many "normal" men are obsessed with catfights.
I have heard of marriage counselors who recommend that both partners admit their fetishes and fantasies to one another, and that to keep the marriage fires burning, take part in the dreams of your spouse.
All I can tell you is that this piece of advise has worked for my marriage.
Thanks Maureen and Lucky. I try but she is very prudish and as she has gotten older it's increased. but that's life.
Colt, I understand exactly how women twist this around to the "your a pervert" angle. The point is this is a 100% normal sexual interest. Just look at the media. You don't see catfights on TV, in the movies, in Soap operas, on magazine covers at the checkout stand because there is a tiny percentage of the population who are attracted to them. I am sure for the majority of men this is not their "thing" but 90%+ are turned on by them. And if you look at the media, much of the areas there are catfights are female media. Chick Flicks. Soap Operas. Celebrity Gossip magazines. I am not sure why, but most women appear to find the idea of women fighting more exciting than most guys do. The point is, there is nothing to be ashamed of, and you really shouldn't let her shame you. Just say "Your right... I am a pervert... me and 90% of the rest of the straight male population" and let it drop.
To ThirstyBeerMonsters point, as much as it hurts me to say it, he may have a point. Our women's reluctance to do it may be related to how into us they are. They have to value something to be willing to fight over it, right? But I suspect it has far more to do with the women than it has to do with us. As I said, it is such an extraordinarily low threshold. Whisper something provocative in your man's ear. Tell him a sexy story. You know his hot button. Why the heck wouldn't you push it? That doesn't mean your wife has to fight to prove she loves you. Again for most of us, just incorporating it into fantasy would be enough and 90% of women won't even do that. Most women have a reaction similar to Colt's and mine. I have been married 25+ years. She has done much crazier things in those 25 years than tell me a sexy story. I have to believe most of our wives are into us at least enough to want to turn us on. And I can't believe most of them want us to fantasize about other women doing something that drives us wild. What TBM is saying may certainly apply to a short term girlfriend, a hookup in a bar, or a wild fling. But I am guessing it really doesn't apply to most of our wives. Maybe it does, but these women have invested years of their lives into us. I gotta believe they are into us at least a little bit. Right?
Well stated, Jack.
Quote from: mauler maureen on August 06, 2015, 05:51:32 AM
I'm sure this question has been asked before. Why do so many husbands get a thrill out of seeing their wives fighting? After all, this is the woman they married, the mother of their children.
Why do men crave the thought of pitting their wife against another woman ? Curious to find out what your feedback is.
Maureen, in response to the initial question you posed (quoted above), I will share some personal observations. As a romantic, I find that part of the thrill of watching females fight is the fantasy that they are fighting over me - perhaps egotistical, but consistent with the primal mating reaction by other males and females watching the quest for dominance by rivals of the opposite sex. When one of the females is a spouse (or in my experience young women I have dated), that confrontation becomes more personal and heightens the electricity. While this arousal is most acute when my date was challenged by a rival for my affection, it has also been extremely stimulating to watch my dates in a physical confrontation with another female to settle matters that do not involve me. In each of these situation, I found myself strongly sexually attracted to the dominant female whether it was my date or the other woman, regardless of their physical appearance.
I suspect men like to watch women fight for the same reason we like to watch men fight. It's primal and sexy. Ever been to a pro or golden gloves boxing match? The women are the most excited spectators. Same for men's mma. Women love it. I'm sure men think the same thing about women's combat. Throw in the spousal involvement and it is over the top. My man can whip your man and he CHOSE me! For the men, it's the reverse - my wife is better than yours and is going home with me tonight.
Quote from: Katie0 on October 10, 2015, 05:21:11 AM
I suspect men like to watch women fight for the same reason we like to watch men fight. It's primal and sexy. Ever been to a pro or golden gloves boxing match? The women are the most excited spectators. Same for men's mma. Women love it. I'm sure men think the same thing about women's combat. Throw in the spousal involvement and it is over the top. My man can whip your man and he CHOSE me! For the men, it's the reverse - my wife is better than yours and is going home with me tonight.
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U R right. I find it extremly intriguing and arousing to see women watching two guys fighting. concerning the circumstances..the more private the better. Thats why I like couples fighting
Jack I have to agree. I think that in my case, as that's all I can comment on, I have had this fetish for more years than I have been married and it's not going away. I just compartmentalize it and go on. Still, sometimes one needs others to at least commiserate with for a little pick me up.
This forum is mine. Thanks.
Great question, Maureen.
My wife has had many pre-arranged matches with a few other wives over the past 10 years. It took a year or so after I first told her I would love to see her wrestle with another woman before she actually gave it a try.
But I did not ask her to "fight" with another woman- that is not something I would want to see any women do, much less my wife. I really don't consider a pre-arranged wrestling match with rules to be the same thing as a fight.
It took me several years to work up the nerve to reveal to her that I would love to see her wrestle, but I am so glad I did, because I have been treated to many wonderful matches. I just think that watching two women who are close in age and size compete with one another in a real and genuine, yet safe match, to be the sexiest thing ever. And when one of them is your wife, and she is doing it for you, it is off the charts amazing.
Funny thing is, if you knew my wife, you would think she would be the last person to ever try this. Petite, beautiful, sweet as can be, and not an enemy in the world, and she did it- many times! And, amazingly, she has said that she is so glad she did it and says it has been really sexy and fun to do. Of course, doing this with the right couples who are looking for the same things is a huge part in making this a positive experience for all.
My wife has become great friends with the other wives she has wrestled. It never ceases to amaze me how they can be best of friends before and after a match, yet truly compete and do the best they can to win during the match. Breathtakingly beautiful to say the least!
Submission wrestling, sane rules catfights, and even some sexy oil wrestling....I have seen it all, and wouldn't trade it for anything. Real, competitive, safe, sane rules matches for my wife- yes! Fights? No way. There is a big difference!
I was married to an young lady several years ago that refused to even talk about my fantasy.i got a divorce after 8 years of marriage.she had told me I was weird and called me a lot of other things to lol.after my divorce I tried several women over 5 years all with the same result.i finally met my present wife who has catfought irl for me and it takes a special woman to do this. have been married 27yrs.and are both happy.most women wont do this without getting something in return .some want monetary compensation some use it to control there husbands.with my wife it made our sex way better lol. she seemed to enjoy it.she didn't like the other wives that expected some type of payment from there husbands.
my ex did 16 sub wrestles for me against other women..... great memories!!
@ CFsupporter,in my completely biased opinion as a catfight fan I feel next time you see her you should just come out and say, "look we both know we don't like each other, let's just settle this woman to woman" ;)
I won't be surprised if the rules include Hairpulling, Slapping, Punching, tit grabbing/mauling, biting but who know besides Karen and Tara.
Quote from: Feisty Michelle on October 27, 2015, 12:51:21 AM
I would say in your case my dear friend Maureen i would think Lucky enjoys seeing you get your big butt beat (sweet smile)
I'm shocked that it took you so long to leave a comment, Michelle, my dear friend.
Quote from: femwrestlingfan320 on May 02, 2016, 05:27:28 AM
Whatever happen to that Black Friday Catfight between Karen and Tara?
Karen is not talking about it anymore so probably she lost :D
For me, I guess there is something primal about it. I will fight to protect my woman and I will fight to keep her, I need someone that believes the same way.
watching two fems fighting is so sexy... Even more if one of them is your woman! I had the opportunity to watch my wife wrestling. She was so sexy even when she lost.
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Her look was fleeting both times with no aggressiveness. I was just waiting for her to do something catty with a look or by saying something, but it never happened. However, she surely knows that my stares at her were anything but passive. >:(
You're lucky you weren't trying that with me Crissy, because my looks would be anything but fleeting and non-aggressive, and you wouldn't have to wait long for me to do something catty, just to see how you'd react.
sounds like a challenge Charlene. Got a rebuttal Chrissy?
Well then it sounds like you and I would have to settle it Charlene. I would relish you giving me a reason to take you down.
Need a neutral Referee? I am sure there will be a long line of volunteers.
Quote from: EddieBrock on May 19, 2016, 10:12:01 AM
I'd love to see Chrissy vs Charlene
yes that would be great
at least we three are longing for that catfight;-)
Make that four!
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Quote from: CFsupporter on October 14, 2015, 11:39:02 PM
Her look was fleeting both times with no aggressiveness. I was just waiting for her to do something catty with a look or by saying something, but it never happened. However, she surely knows that my stares at her were anything but passive. >:(
You're lucky you weren't trying that with me Crissy, because my looks would be anything but fleeting and non-aggressive, and you wouldn't have to wait long for me to do something catty, just to see how you'd react.
It would be a fantastic show I'm sure; a wonderful match up.
I'd love to see this.
sounds like a challenge Charlene. Got a rebuttal Chrissy?
Well then it sounds like you and I would have to settle it Charlene. I would relish you giving me a reason to take you down.
Oh Crissy, I would so relish the chance to get after you....who knows, maybe I'll be the one for you to "have my first real catfight" with.
Yes, it would be fun to make this happen in front of all of our fans here. I am sure we could put on a show. Attire, rules?
My wife has been involved in 4 friendly wrestling matches since we have been married and 1 actual catfight. she is 5'5 and about 165lbs and has a C36 chest. in 3 of her wrestling matches she wrestled someone taller, heavier and with a bigger chest which is a huge leverage advantage. the 4th wrestling match was against a smaller woman and the catfight was against a woman of the same height and weight but the other woman had a 42DDD chest. very exilerating to see your wife go chest to chest with another woman to see who the stronger woman is.
of note my wife has lost all 4 wrestling matches. 2 were fairly close with the other woman winning 2-1 in pin matches that lasted fairly long. the 3rd match she lost 2-0 but was competitive. the 4th match she got totally dominated and lost 2-0 in a matter of minutes. the other woman was a lot bigger and stronger and easily tossed my wife around. there were no injuries but she lost bad
the catfight was against another lady who had a crush on me. they fought in the other ladies back yard as my wife initiated the challenge. she arrived wearing a tight blue top and yoga pants while the other lady had a tight white top and yoga pants. the difference in chest was enormous and my wife was actually a bit emabrassed about this. well this match also didn't last long as the other lady, Jenny, completely overpowered my wife forcing my wife to give up within minutes.
come on ladies, time s ripe for the two of you to catfight whatever attire youd prefer. anything goes;-)
Quote from: LUCKYODAY9 on September 20, 2015, 07:00:33 AM
Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.
I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.
I absolutely love this idea Lucky :) I should have written it in with Kim!
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My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it. I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.
That can be arranged.
I did so for my husband talking about a friend of mine.....we did wrestle in front of the husbands
Watching my wife fight my friends girlfrried is probably the best thing I've ever seen