Say your wife or girlfriend gets into a nasty cat brawl with another woman in your presence. Would you get off more if she won, or if your woman lost the battle ?
from a woman's point of view he better not get off if i lose
Quote from: irenecatfighter on March 11, 2015, 12:51:28 PM
For some reason. Most males I know have this fantasy of the wife or GF loosing. ;D Very funny but !!!! As long as I don't suffer serious injuries , I can live with that ! ;D One guy I was dating always fantasised about me loosing. He said the look of rage , helplessness , being dominated by a woman made me look hot ! ;D
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I do get turned on a bit more when fantasizing about my girl (EvaCat77) catfighting and she is getting beat but I would never pull against her when she fights for real. I want to see her beat the other girl's ass, not the other way around.
I prefer my woman to win. I like strong women. It works for me as an aphrodisiac. Besides, I feel attachment to her. I do not want my girlfriend to get hurt during the fight. I prefer she to beat another whore. After that our sex will be even better.
If my wife wins or loses I get turned on by her catfighting either way. Just to know that she went as far as to put her womanhood on the line in a catty fight against another female is all it takes for me. I will take her in my arms and fuck her just as hard whether she is victorious or is defeated. A wife that will catfight for her man, is the sexiest thing I know of.
My ex boyfriend was always far more turned on when I lost a boxing or wrestling match. It was him who took the pics of me beaten and ko which I've shared on here. He still gets in touch to say he masturbates over them! He liked it when I told him of my humiliation and helplessness when I lay spread eagle with my rival posing over my defeated, broken thong-clad body, my firm tits up (his words!!). I found it strange but understood the turn-on of it. He liked me to wrestle in pantyhose and my opponent to stretch my legs high and wide. He liked to see me spanked after a defeat too. The sex (after I'd recovered) was amazing I have to say ;-)
Probably I'd get turned on more if she lost, and like it's been said before here, it's a strange thing, I'd like a good psychological explanation for that myself sometime, haha!
This question reminds me of a particular time when I had a girlfriend about 5'2" whom one day I saw with a woman in the neighborhood who was so tall and massive, I think my girlfriend not even quite reached her shoulders and the other woman was also obviously very strong. I fantasized a lot about the two having a confrontation, but it was more about humiliation (not physical harm) - like the other woman bumping her enormous boobs into her face, keeping her head locked under her arm and then putting her across her knees to spank her. The image of my girlfriend in her helpless rage and frustration while the other woman would laugh at her and play with her like with a doll was what seemed sexy, but in real life I wouldn't have enjoyed it at all. The end of the fantasy, with my girlfriend leaving in tears, exhausted and humiliated and the other woman still laughing and ridiculing her, was something really hot and exciting but also gave me an extremely awkward feeling about myself. About physical injuries from brutal fighting I never even fantasized, my partner inflicting them wouldn't turn me on, and her receiving them I'd find more upsetting than anything.
Quote from: sexylouise on March 15, 2015, 10:31:05 AM
My ex boyfriend was always far more turned on when I lost a boxing or wrestling match. It was him who took the pics of me beaten and ko which I've shared on here. He still gets in touch to say he masturbates over them! He liked it when I told him of my humiliation and helplessness when I lay spread eagle with my rival posing over my defeated, broken thong-clad body, my firm tits up (his words!!). I found it strange but understood the turn-on of it. He liked me to wrestle in pantyhose and my opponent to stretch my legs high and wide. He liked to see me spanked after a defeat too. The sex (after I'd recovered) was amazing I have to say ;-)
Listening to a girl describe how she felt when she lost a fight really is hot!
my guy better not get off if I lose...but saying that he's hard for weeks after thinking about it ;) :)
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
I'm sure what you say is correct in some cases, but there are people, of both sexes, for whom being beaten up and publicly humiliated is a turn on. Sometimes they confine it to fantasy, but some find a partner who is turned on by seeing them defeated in a fight. I've been commissioned to illustrate more one-sided girl fights at the request of women than by men, and in every case except one, the woman has asked me to illustrate the beating they dream of receiving from another woman. Some people suspect these are really men who commission this type of art work, but as it takes me some time to do a series of pictures I usually correspond with my customer by e-mail while I'm working on their project, we get to know each other, which is interesting and fun, and there's no doubt they are female.
So yes, there are women who want to be beaten up by another woman, sometimes before an audience, or at least fantasize about it.
Quote from: Walter White on March 19, 2015, 04:27:57 PM
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
Definitely a fair way to think about it. Be honest with yourself, would you be willing to reciprocate if your wife/gf turned around and said okay fine but before I do, I want to see you fight Chris Hemsworth, my ex-boyfriend, my hot boss that all the women drool over, I want him to beat you, oh and when he's done I'd love for him to pose with his junk on your face.
My wife is my favorite person in the world and I love seeing her win her matches. If anything when we talk about prospective or fantasy opponents I tend to have more confidence in her ability than she does.
I think it's about fantasies only for 99% of people. I can't see the big deal. If my gf fantasies over me getting humiliated by a 6'10" guy with all the right assets that's fine with me, I'm sure she doesn't want it to happen in real life, I don't want her to get demolished by Lindsay Hayward in real life either. It's just sex fantasies, if those get turned into issues of morals and ethics there's a misunderstanding.
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
LOL well it depends on the woman technically, like guys, you have dominate and submissive women, women who like to lose and women who like to win, just like you have dominant men and submissive men, men who loves to be submissive (Such as the guys who likes to get beat up in mixed wrestling by women) and the men who likes to be dominant, (such as sexually dominate in bed) For example, I knew a few women in the fantasy cat fight industry and they actually like to lose because of the submissive nature of it. There's nothing wrong with either case, and to try and attack either side is wrong. But it definitely makes a lot of sense why both sides have their preference. I for example at a 6"3 male who can bench press close to 300 lbs, so I'm a naturally dominate person who prefer more submissive females. So for me personally, wrestling jobbers are some of the sexiest women on the planet, just because of their submissive nature.
I have unlike most of you, even in fantasy.
When I was a teenager I saw my aunt's fight with a neighbor. Aunt won and for a few years became the object of my fantasy about sex and catfight. I doubt it would have happened if she lost, or not fight.
I met my girlfriend in training martial arts and that she fights well, really affects how I see her and how she excites me. In real life, when my girlfriend won the fight, she seemed more attractive and sexy. If she lost, then she was to me less attractive, and her rival was more attractive than before the fight. She's nice and intelligent girl, but her fighting skills are pretty damn important to me. That's why I prefer that my girlfriend wins.
In the fantasy girl who I like, wins. In real life too, so I prefer.
lol, again meg, a great quotable.
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
Ive seen my wife win and lose. My hope was always for a close fight that could have gone either way. This way there might be a rematch.
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In the Bear household, there's only one way too play --- and that's to win. Period. I would want my wife to win in a competitive match, or any kind of competition: baking, dancing, spelling, whatever. Why? Because I know that's what she would want, and vice versa.
Quote from: leo619 on March 20, 2015, 11:04:19 AM
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
LOL well it depends on the woman technically, like guys, you have dominate and submissive women, women who like to lose and women who like to win, just like you have dominant men and submissive men, men who loves to be submissive (Such as the guys who likes to get beat up in mixed wrestling by women) and the men who likes to be dominant, (such as sexually dominate in bed) For example, I knew a few women in the fantasy cat fight industry and they actually like to lose because of the submissive nature of it. There's nothing wrong with either case, and to try and attack either side is wrong. But it definitely makes a lot of sense why both sides have their preference. I for example at a 6"3 male who can bench press close to 300 lbs, so I'm a naturally dominate person who prefer more submissive females. So for me personally, wrestling jobbers are some of the sexiest women on the planet, just because of their submissive nature.
I would agree that, generally, a dominant man is more likely to be turned on by the loser of a catfight than a submissive man would be. Though we are all individuals, of course, and there is no one rule which applies to every man.
The winner of the fight has proved herself to be stronger and more dominant than the loser, so a submissive man is likely to find her more attractive. Maybe she'll be strong and dominant enough to boss him around too?
Personally, I will usually know before a fight even starts which woman I find more attractive, and that won't change whether she wins or loses. So if my girlfriend got into a fight, which isn't likely to happen, unfortunately, and it wasn't a situation where I needed to worry about her safety, I would get a huge buzz from watching her, whatever the outcome, but probably more of a buzz if she lost.
The best way I could explain that is to say that I was brought up to view strength, aggression, and fighting prowess as "manly" virtues. So if a woman has those qualities, she seems less feminine to me.
I've found though, that if I get turned on by seeing a woman lose a fight, I will immediately start wanting to see her fight again, and win. As I said, there's no one rule that applies every time.
If things go down like they should, everyone wins! ;D
My woman clearly losing is always my fantasy. I'm attracted by a slim frail not big titted girl.
I love her seeming weakness and I fantasize about that.
She looks so puny, helpless.
A thin light girl easy outwrestled, pinned, bearhugged, also teased and humiliated.
The good girl, my girl, beaten by a bad far stronger larger rival.
I don't know why I like that, of course is a psychological aspect.
Quote from: kafkod on March 25, 2015, 03:30:54 AM
Quote from: leo619 on March 20, 2015, 11:04:19 AM
Quote from: nutmeg78 on March 18, 2015, 11:27:30 PM
Whenever I hear a man going on how he wants his gf or wife to lose in a fight, I await the "But sadly she won't fight for me. No idea why. " ;D
LOL well it depends on the woman technically, like guys, you have dominate and submissive women, women who like to lose and women who like to win, just like you have dominant men and submissive men, men who loves to be submissive (Such as the guys who likes to get beat up in mixed wrestling by women) and the men who likes to be dominant, (such as sexually dominate in bed) For example, I knew a few women in the fantasy cat fight industry and they actually like to lose because of the submissive nature of it. There's nothing wrong with either case, and to try and attack either side is wrong. But it definitely makes a lot of sense why both sides have their preference. I for example at a 6"3 male who can bench press close to 300 lbs, so I'm a naturally dominate person who prefer more submissive females. So for me personally, wrestling jobbers are some of the sexiest women on the planet, just because of their submissive nature.
I would agree that, generally, a dominant man is more likely to be turned on by the loser of a catfight than a submissive man would be. Though we are all individuals, of course, and there is no one rule which applies to every man.
The winner of the fight has proved herself to be stronger and more dominant than the loser, so a submissive man is likely to find her more attractive. Maybe she'll be strong and dominant enough to boss him around too?
Personally, I will usually know before a fight even starts which woman I find more attractive, and that won't change whether she wins or loses. So if my girlfriend got into a fight, which isn't likely to happen, unfortunately, and it wasn't a situation where I needed to worry about her safety, I would get a huge buzz from watching her, whatever the outcome, but probably more of a buzz if she lost.
The best way I could explain that is to say that I was brought up to view strength, aggression, and fighting prowess as "manly" virtues. So if a woman has those qualities, she seems less feminine to me.
I've found though, that if I get turned on by seeing a woman lose a fight, I will immediately start wanting to see her fight again, and win. As I said, there's no one rule that applies every time.
Oh I agree, there isn't a one size fit all approach. For example a dominant man may like a dominant female due to her competitive nature which entails would share a bit of kinship. But at the same time, I'm pretty sure that dominant male would want to dominate sexually as well which could possibly cause friction, depending upon the case. The likelihood of two submissive partners getting together would be slim as they both would want to be dominated, so unless they both are capable of switching, that is doom to failure.
We would also have to take account into other people's interest here on this board. Not everyone here likes the same thing. We have those that are interested in fantasy/fetish catfight, plus those interest in pro-wrestling, and than those interested in real wrestling and each could be viewed at differently.
For example I'm not interested in real wrestling with women, just not my thing. I prefer fetish/fantasy catfight/apartment wrestling and pro-wrestling. This is why jobbers are very sexy for me because they appear to have a more submissive quality in themselves that is reflected in them being dominated via fetish catfight and/or pro wrestling. This is one of the major reasons why I don't have an interest in real wrestling because I don't see how someone can be a jobber in real wrestling? So when I saw I prefer the women that loses, that's mostly in those fields like Sumiko, Hollywood, especially Kimberly Jane, wow lol.
I get part of my fix NOT knowing who would win, so my fantasy involves a close match, where I watch in suspense. However, I am rooting for my girl to win. Even if she doesn't, it is the back and forth battle that does it for me. I like the idea of my girl to lose occasionally, so that a "come back" for the title is set up. Rematch! In the end, I want my girl to win...to be the champion!
I prefer to win. my man prefers that I lose but unfortunately for me usually ends up with him getting his fantasy come true
fat high school girl humiliates and tickled skinny college girl
A slender 27 y.o 5'4 105 lbs college girl was flirting with a handsome college freshman whom she likes so much, unfortunately, she was caught by the girlfriend who is 23 y.o 5'3 but 200 lbs wide bodied fat arms and legs, she want to beat the slender girl to the pulp but she was restrained by her friends and was advised instead jut to tickle torture the girl.
As Ms slender woman was was passing in a road she was met by the fat girl and was challenged to a wrestling match, the thin girl was rattled and shocked because she her slender body is no match to her,
As she was about to run, she was caught in a bear hug and was slammed to the floor , fat girl ripped off the poor thin girl clothes and her big legs pinned and squeezed her thin legs while her other hand locked up and put over head her skinny arms and she tickled her, in her armpits, fondling her bobs and tweaking her nipples, the tickling went on till she passed out and left naked. ;)