My wife knows I enjoy catfights and says she wants to make me proud by fighting another woman for me. In the last month alone, however, I have had 2 women come on to me right in front of my wife, and she did nothing. It seems that other women don't respect her and have no worries about what she might do if she attempts to defend her territory. I feel bad for her when I see other women basically taunt her, daring her to do something about it.... My question is, should I encourage her to get into a fight? How well do you think she would do in an all out NHB fight with another woman?
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i agree with fightfanatic. that should be the first step. perhaps your wife appreciates you accompanying her slowly to the upcoming event;-).
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Have you tried watching a catfight video with her? Let her watch one and see how she reacts to that. It might encourage her to give it a try, or her reaction might just tell you that this isn't really her thing. Either way, you'll know.
If she want's to fight she'll fight. Let her make the decision. If you push her into it and she loses it could have long term consequences. If she wins??? Who knows. It's a crap shoot.
If you love your wife, you will do what makes her happy. Period, the end. I think your best move here is don't encourage her to fight these bimbos. Instead let her know that she doesn't need to do anything to keep you. Other women come on to you? Blow them off, and make it plain to her (your wife) that you are hers. If she wants to fight to please you, you are one hell of a lucky man. Maybe arrange something. I remember reading something on this site about a woman who arranged a kind of staged fight with another woman to make her husband happy, maybe for his birthday or some such. I'd post the link if I could find it quickly, but it should be in here somewhere; look it up. You might find a suitable opponent here!
One of the things which to me is obvious,is that you would like nothing better than to see your wife take part in a fight for real.This could easily be where you are hitting a problem.Your wife is not unusual in being willing to fulfill your fantasy but doesn't really fancy the idea of having to go to work sporting bruises and even cuts.
Over the last few years I have had contact with a number of fans and some of their wives who have gone down this road for many different reasons and often with a different end product.One of the things all appear to agree on is not to use the term fight,better to refer to wrestling which can be a far more friendly affair.As a lead into that arm wrestling as often been used.
I would suggest a visit to my blog(femfighteurope.blogspot.co.uk)and read back through a few fans experiences.
Here's the discussion I referred to:
An arranged fight I will be having on May 10th...
in General Discussion about Catfights.
Im just afraid that other women don't respect her and therefore treat it like she's no threat....It seems like they feel even if she got mad they would have no problem kicking her ass
Speaking as someone who isn't married, I imagined myself in your situation. Take it for what it's worth, but I don't think you should encourage your wife to fight someone. She should make up her own mind when it comes to that. If she wants to fight someone, I'm sure she'll do it on her own.
I just talked to a woman who told me that if I let my wife fight I don't love her because she will get her ass kicked by just about any woman. She said my wife is a whimpy little bitch that many women would love to beat the shit out of... Is this True?
I'm not sure if this is a genuine topic question or a fantasy, but I agree with many here, and if it's for real, this is what I think - You may enjoy the fantasy and your wife may want to go along with that and even find it exciting too, but if at all then it should only happen within that context! An arranged wrestling match for example should be ok for everybody, and then it's not going to be a disaster if your wife doesn't win.
But to encourage her to provoke some slut who doesn't know what's really going on and would just enjoy giving a black eye to another woman would be wrong. If I was in that situation, a woman hitting on me in front of my wife/girlfriend, I would shrug my shoulders, take my wife in my arm and kiss her. That should be 'victory' enough for her - she wouldn't have to stand up for herself at all, because if we love each other we would do that together.
The fantasy of her fighting would be completely different thing - that could be arranged if both want to do that, but not in a random way where in an uncontrolled brawl she could just be injured and emotionally really hurt.
If you have to fight to keep your woman or your man, then you have already lost them.
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Quote from: Big Mike on October 06, 2014, 03:30:53 AM
If she want's to fight she'll fight. Let her make the decision. If you push her into it and she loses it could have long term consequences. If she wins??? Who knows. It's a crap shoot.
Big Mike has the right idea on this one. When the proper motivation is there, she'll be like all of us and take care of business.
Only on know if she's the type to fight another woman. From what you described of her non-reaction to woman flirting with you, she's not the type to fight or there are deeper issues in your relationship. If all is well then you can wrestle your wife. See how she reacts. Then think about hiring a model/session wrestler.
Quote from: herboyfriend on October 12, 2014, 01:37:55 PM
I'm not sure if this is a genuine topic question or a fantasy, but I agree with many here, and if it's for real, this is what I think - You may enjoy the fantasy and your wife may want to go along with that and even find it exciting too, but if at all then it should only happen within that context! An arranged wrestling match for example should be ok for everybody, and then it's not going to be a disaster if your wife doesn't win.
But to encourage her to provoke some slut who doesn't know what's really going on and would just enjoy giving a black eye to another woman would be wrong. If I was in that situation, a woman hitting on me in front of my wife/girlfriend, I would shrug my shoulders, take my wife in my arm and kiss her. That should be 'victory' enough for her - she wouldn't have to stand up for herself at all, because if we love each other we would do that together.
The fantasy of her fighting would be completely different thing - that could be arranged if both want to do that, but not in a random way where in an uncontrolled brawl she could just be injured and emotionally really hurt.
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