Poll
Question:
Do you find that guys are just too easy in matches?
Option 1: Yeah! Piece of cake!
votes: 3
Option 2: Yes, but only in sexfights
votes: 4
Option 3: No, they're about the same
votes: 1
Option 4: No, I have some difficulty
votes: 0
Hey huns!
So, I was wondering. How do you find mixed matches against guys? Sex fights, but also any guy vs girl match like wrestling, boxing, no holds barred etc.
For me when I still did real life matches with guys, I never lost a tussle and to be honest it wasn't really much of a challenge. And it's not that I was facing only feather weights, I took on big burly, well muscled guys. Guys who looked like they could like a truck in one hand and down a protein shake in the other. But for me it was easy.
I'm not that muscular now and I definitely wasn't back then. I was just wondering if any other women had similar experiences of proving that perhaps men are the 'fairer sex'?
what i think is happening is that a sane male individual has been taught to not hurt women so when they go against a woman they dont fight as hard as they might against another male. this doesnt mean all men are like this some are legitimately dangerous because they harbor no inhibitions or they have learned to compartmentalize certain situations into fighting with their full strength as okay.
Maybe. But then which is worse? Loosing to a woman, or winning against a woman?
Quote from: The Ref on August 08, 2013, 06:42:44 PM
That's an excellent question. I can say personally that I don't do anything but wrestling with women. Even in cyber play I can't bring myself to hit a girl, just the way I was raised I guess.
Really? Even in cyber play???
Quote from: The Ref on August 08, 2013, 07:25:32 PM
Quote from: Amazon_Victoria on August 08, 2013, 07:20:00 PM
Quote from: The Ref on August 08, 2013, 06:42:44 PM
That's an excellent question. I can say personally that I don't do anything but wrestling with women. Even in cyber play I can't bring myself to hit a girl, just the way I was raised I guess.
Really? Even in cyber play???
Yea cause why I do cyber play I picture the scene unfolding in my head. I can't even picture hitting a girl.
Gotcha
Hmm, well according to the poll (not that many votes though). Most girls don't seem to have a problem handling the guys.
Cyber, I have no issues fighting women. IRL, not a chance.
However in my experience (and it could be just the name thing) but I tend to attract a certain type of opponent or someone interested in a certain type of encounter. It's funny because sometimes gals around who find the soft guys are a bit surprised when they take me on. I'm not saying I'm the best or always win, but I always put up a fight. To hear some people talk, some guys don't.
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 20, 2013, 06:41:01 PM
Cyber, I have no issues fighting women. IRL, not a chance.
However in my experience (and it could be just the name thing) but I tend to attract a certain type of opponent or someone interested in a certain type of encounter. It's funny because sometimes gals around who find the soft guys are a bit surprised when they take me on. I'm not saying I'm the best or always win, but I always put up a fight. To hear some people talk, some guys don't.
Yeah, guys can last longer in an online match than they would in reality. And I think TheRef is an exception in pulling punches for online matches as well.
Quote from: Amazon_Victoria on August 20, 2013, 06:59:14 PM
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 20, 2013, 06:41:01 PM
Cyber, I have no issues fighting women. IRL, not a chance.
However in my experience (and it could be just the name thing) but I tend to attract a certain type of opponent or someone interested in a certain type of encounter. It's funny because sometimes gals around who find the soft guys are a bit surprised when they take me on. I'm not saying I'm the best or always win, but I always put up a fight. To hear some people talk, some guys don't.
Yeah, guys can last longer in an online match than they would in reality. And I think TheRef is an exception in pulling punches for online matches as well.
Well actually I was talking about more of a difference in opponents who are more jobbers vs the ones more into beating guys. I think there are a lot of male jobbers around so I'm kinda odd in that respect.
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 20, 2013, 07:31:50 PM
Well actually I was talking about more of a difference in opponents who are more jobbers vs the ones more into beating guys. I think there are a lot of male jobbers around so I'm kinda odd in that respect.
Odd like how hun?
RL I'd never hit a woman but cyber is just fun so if its nhb any thing does go if you win you win if you lose you lose as long as you enjoy it.
Quote from: Amazon_Victoria on August 21, 2013, 01:07:10 AM
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 20, 2013, 07:31:50 PM
Well actually I was talking about more of a difference in opponents who are more jobbers vs the ones more into beating guys. I think there are a lot of male jobbers around so I'm kinda odd in that respect.
Odd like how hun?
That I'm not a jobber or a subbie in fights. You want to beat me, earn it. Although for the most part, it's about finding out what's fun for the other person. I tend to attract opponents who are jobbers. I'm more than happy to let them explore that side of them.
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 21, 2013, 06:51:09 PM
That I'm not a jobber or a subbie in fights. You want to beat me, earn it. Although for the most part, it's about finding out what's fun for the other person. I tend to attract opponents who are jobbers. I'm more than happy to let them explore that side of them.
I get you hun, that's fine, I ALWAYS make sure to earn my win. Though some have tried just rolling over and playing dead.
Quote from: Amazon_Victoria on August 22, 2013, 02:36:04 AM
Quote from: RedEnforcer on August 21, 2013, 06:51:09 PM
That I'm not a jobber or a subbie in fights. You want to beat me, earn it. Although for the most part, it's about finding out what's fun for the other person. I tend to attract opponents who are jobbers. I'm more than happy to let them explore that side of them.
I get you hun, that's fine, I ALWAYS make sure to earn my win. Though some have tried just rolling over and playing dead.
You sound like lots of fun.
Most of the male opponents I have had around here have always been very fair for the most part.....don't hesitate to hit me....which is fine....it is a fight after all......LOL......so I don't mind..
I have experienced maybe one "jobber" here in cyber......all in all my experiences have been pretty good.....but i'm unusual maybe in that I'm bigger...and I've boxed and done NHB irl...maybe its more second nature....maybe I get a different type of guy on here....I can't be sure...
As long as its fun...and we stay as real as we can unless we agree on something different ahead of time...i've had good luck with most guys here for sure.....most are respectful and polite.....there are exceptions but they're few...
outlast? HA! :P
Quote from: Michelle on August 22, 2013, 04:30:43 AM
Most of the male opponents I have had around here have always been very fair for the most part.....don't hesitate to hit me....which is fine....it is a fight after all......LOL......so I don't mind..
I have experienced maybe one "jobber" here in cyber......all in all my experiences have been pretty good.....but i'm unusual maybe in that I'm bigger...and I've boxed and done NHB irl...maybe its more second nature....maybe I get a different type of guy on here....I can't be sure...
As long as its fun...and we stay as real as we can unless we agree on something different ahead of time...i've had good luck with most guys here for sure.....most are respectful and polite.....there are exceptions but they're few...
So you're saying most online matches, the guys don't seem to pull their punches but it's still a fair fight regardless? (Bigger, Boxed, and NHB? You sound right up my alley hun!) Also, have you done many IRL mixed fights?
Quote from: georgiakitty on August 22, 2013, 07:06:47 AM
guys can be easy to control if you know them well enough and you can trick them into giving up a better position but that goes both ways... of course it's usually easy to outlast most men, too...
Guy are easy to control regardless hun.
Quote from: Watcher314 on August 22, 2013, 07:44:52 AM
outlast? HA! :P
I know, right hun? None of the guys I ever face managed to last more then 15 minutes. Even my husband has trouble breaking the 20 minute mark for our first round.
I spar with guys when I work out with my boxing trainer on a weekly basis and as a general rule they don't hold back...they're experienced...and in shape so there has never been a 'jobber" in that bunch....LOL. I've had a few real matches with guys and they were always closer to my size....which I found made it more enjoyable....and I found I could hold my own and do well...
Quote from: Michelle on August 22, 2013, 05:04:23 PM
I spar with guys when I work out with my boxing trainer on a weekly basis and as a general rule they don't hold back...they're experienced...and in shape so there has never been a 'jobber" in that bunch....LOL. I've had a few real matches with guys and they were always closer to my size....which I found made it more enjoyable....and I found I could hold my own and do well...
Nice hun. I'm honestly not sure if the guys I've faced were jobbers or not. I can box professionally, but I've never tried to do so (like with a trainer or anything, so I'm not fully sure if the guys I faced were the real deal.
Myself as a male I could see my don't hurt a woman thing go against me in mixed except for sexfights (depending on the rules of course)
If ladies find that men are too easy in sexfights, they're fighting the wrong men.
Just sayin'. ;)
Quote from: TheBear on August 28, 2013, 02:29:43 PM
The problem with mixed matches is that the results are always skewed in the woman's favor. Every mixed match I've ever seen, with the exception of a few (DT matches with Puma in them being a notable exception), always ends with the woman winning, because it's almost always some pathetic balding loser who wants to get beaten up by a girl. In reality, if it were an actual match, probably no more than 1% of all mixed matches would end with the woman on top. Barring an overwhelming gulf in skill (and the average woman in these matches is no more skilled than the average man), the woman has no way to overcome the man's superior strength. Now, she might be marginally faster or marginally more skilled, but it takes a lot more than slight differences to bridge that gap. That's why I avoid mixed matches like the plague. They're all fake.
Are you kidding me hun? A girl and a guy of the same weight class, same skill, same training, same sames across the board, is going to end up as a tie. A guy is marginally stronger and a girl is marginally faster (and definitely more flexible). Depending on their background, that could add to the difference. For example hun, my childhood/early teens was spent in not quite the ghetto/hood/projects/etc. I explained it somewhere else, but two girls fighting is a lot more aggressive than two guys fighting. I can't explain it simply. From my point of view, guy fights are simple and straight-forward; the winner is the winner, doesn't matter if you only just won, you won, Pass or Fail. For girls, it's so much more than that (and I think guys don't understand that because in most of the FvF catfight/sexfight/wrestling stories I read, all the subtext is missing). It's... I don't know where to start hun, but the best way to explain it is that women are like cats, men are like dogs.
If anything, in a NHB fight at equal skill level, women have the advantage.
Now for me I'm a little different hun. I'm above the average weight class, skill level, and training amount then most other women, putting me well above the average guy. I've fought a few 'jobber' guys, more in it for a free grope then the match. But I've fought musclemen. Guys who couldn't understand the idea that a woman could be any good in a match. Guys with a chip on their shoulder to PROVE that a woman COULDN'T be any good in a match. Like I said, undefeated in mixed fights.
Just came across the post and thought I might add my 2 cents. My hobby for many years has been wrestling with women. And overall, I would say that the wins versus women and the losses versus women would now stand at about 50-50. I have had some really physical matches with women and I have not met a woman that didnt give it her all. But as I got older, I noticed that I could not give most women the kind of match that they would be looking for....so I like to think that I am somewhat retired now...although would take on a challenge...lol
Its been a fun run and I have really enjoyed it....
I probably didnt answer the question...but as I said..my 2 cents worth...
Quote from: davetussle on August 30, 2013, 09:13:17 PM
Just came across the post and thought I might add my 2 cents. My hobby for many years has been wrestling with women. And overall, I would say that the wins versus women and the losses versus women would now stand at about 50-50. I have had some really physical matches with women and I have not met a woman that didnt give it her all. But as I got older, I noticed that I could not give most women the kind of match that they would be looking for....so I like to think that I am somewhat retired now...although would take on a challenge...lol
Its been a fun run and I have really enjoyed it....
I probably didnt answer the question...but as I said..my 2 cents worth...
Well the question was for women in the first place hun, but yeah, you pretty much confirmed what I was saying to TheBear. Average Joe vs Average Jane is gonna come up as a tie.