Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.
I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.
JT Edson
Quote from: JT Edson on August 17, 2022, 07:44:22 PM
Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.
I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.
JT Edson
I do not think it is wrong, JT. It is a dilema though. It is kinda like having two ladies catfight over you, but genuinely like both of them at the same time. Don't know how I would handle the outcome. My thoughts.
Quote from: shesfinished on August 17, 2022, 07:57:37 PM
Quote from: JT Edson on August 17, 2022, 07:44:22 PM
Is it wrong to be turned on by a possessive, jealous woman when she talks about her competition? I know what I think most of the men on here will say, but I would be interested in how ALL the members of the FCF think about this.
I had a female ...acquaintance recently express a little displeasure that another acquaintance was paying a little too much attention to me. She knows that catfight's turn me on and I think this might have a little to do with it. I was pretty aroused by the whole situation and have been fantasizing about the ladies going at it since then, but I felt a little guilty about it the other day and wanted input since I have been thinking about it so much lately.
JT Edson
I do not think it is wrong, JT. It is a dilema though. It is kinda like having two ladies catfight over you, but genuinely like both of them at the same time. Don't know how I would handle the outcome. My thoughts.
Thank you both for sharing your thoughts on this. It is appreciated.
You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong? What have you been drinking?
Quote from: Bear on August 19, 2022, 04:13:12 AM
You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong? What have you been drinking?
I don't necessarily think it is wrong or right, but I did feel some guilt over it at the time for some reason and I just want to know other's opinions. I've been thinking about it alot lately because the possibility of these two going at it is very real, not just my fantasy.
i dont think its wrong, its only if you reacted in a bad/selfish manor. for example goading them into a fight.
Quote from: JT Edson on August 19, 2022, 12:46:38 PM
Quote from: Bear on August 19, 2022, 04:13:12 AM
You're a regular contributor here, and you think this is wrong? What have you been drinking?
I don't necessarily think it is wrong or right, but I did feel some guilt over it at the time for some reason and I just want to know other's opinions. I've been thinking about it alot lately because the possibility of these two going at it is very real, not just my fantasy.
I don't think that there's anything wrong about fantasizing about it. However, if you somehow contributed to hit occurring, then I can see where you might feel some guilt.
Quote from: Gent on August 19, 2022, 01:59:10 PM
i dont think its wrong, its only if you reacted in a bad/selfish manor. for example goading them into a fight.
It's a good fantasy to want to see them catfight, however egging them on would be so wrong. In my past, I had an ex GF that hated my current GF and wanted to fight her. I was excited, but disregarded it. Best to leave it up to the girls without getting involved.
Thank you all. I do fantasize about women catfighting a lot (and yes, I usually fantasize about them catfighting over me.) The reason this one is different to me is the similarity to two other situations in my past. A couple of times in my younger days, there were young ladies willing to catfight tooth and nail over me (some of you are familiar with these). I stopped those from happening. (For better or worse, I enjoy the fantasy but don't want to see someone seriously hurt on my account.)
I guess because I am older (a bit. lol.) it really turned me on to think two ladies would still catfight tooth and nail over me really gave my ego incredible boost. I didn't do anything to encourage them to fight, but I haven't done anything to discourage it from happening either. I started feeling guilty about it. You guys are kind of my "therapists" or Jiminy Cricket in this case. lol.
Thank You for all your opinions and input. As usual, it is appreciated,
JT Edson
JT Edson
I don't think it is wrong at all to be turned on by it. I don't even think it would be wrong to encourage them to fight over you. As long as you are forcing nobody to do it, they both want you, they both know this is a turn on for you, etc. Now arranging for one of them to ambush the other or if one of them is unaware of your interests or unwilling to fight or letting it go "too far" (somebody badly hurt), that is definitely wrong. Also be aware if they fight this could go directions you have no control of.
The life of a catfight fan is embellished with memories of sometimes small events, not necessarily a fight.
A friend of mine had booked tickets for a small provincial theatre over the phone. On arrival in a side alcove, the pre booked tickets were handed out but a female employee. My friend , in her mid 50s, looked at the tickets and protested they further back than the ones she bought. By coincidence the lady handing the tickets out had taken the call for the booking. This was confirmed beyond doubt when both agreed a technical fault had ended the call. They both disputed what had been said and the argument got heated and very quickly both ladies were repeatedly asking each other the same question, 'Are you calling me a liar?' At that point I suggested no matter who was right, we should use the ticket. There were other people about who would notice any escalation. After I thought I should have gone back to the employee and apologised for my friends reaction, hoping to canvas some comment. I should have told my friend I was shocked but proud of her for the way she argued. Hindsight is wonderful. My abiding memory 30 years plus later is of two middle aged women, adrenalin coarsing through their bodies, not so pert breasts thrust towards each other, both asking if they were been called a liar. I suppose I should have backed my friend but as they glared at each other, neither giving an inch, both ladies were magnificent.
I think it's normal to wonder what might have happened or been arranged.
In a perfect type scenario if they were to somehow be thrust into a wrestling match or some sort of spontaneous competition that neither would be seriously hurt but seeing them find out who wins would definitely be a win win except for the losing girls feelings that is.
When I saw two pretty girls fighting yes it turned me on while at the same time I felt guilty at being excited by the fight, as it was real. Neither got badly hurt, though one told me later she started crying during the fight not because she was hurt but humiliated that with a short skirt on all of the onlookers saw her panties. Was I turned on to hear her say that? Yes! But again a feeling of guilt. Thing is the excitement is a gut reaction, involuntary. I think if I saw a cat fight in which one of them got really hurt I'd intervene to try and stop it, but I can't help my instinctive feelings.
Quote from: jondo53 on August 22, 2022, 01:07:32 AM
When I saw two pretty girls fighting yes it turned me on while at the same time I felt guilty at being excited by the fight, as it was real. Neither got badly hurt, though one told me later she started crying during the fight not because she was hurt but humiliated that with a short skirt on all of the onlookers saw her panties. Was I turned on to hear her say that? Yes! But again a feeling of guilt. Thing is the excitement is a gut reaction, involuntary. I think if I saw a cat fight in which one of them got really hurt I'd intervene to try and stop it, but I can't help my instinctive feelings.
A reason I not a fan of street/bar fights between ladies. Let them settle in an arranged catfight where safely in ensured. Less guilt IMO.
My wife will sometimes times try to get me excited by telling me about a catty incident that happened between her and another woman. She know this gets me excited. I have been known to misread the story though. A few months back, a new clerical assistant (we'll call her Trina) was hired at my wife's work. My wife, Andrea, could not stand Trina from almost the beginning. At least once a week, she would come home telling about some confrontation between her and Trina. If she was trying to get me excited about a possible fight between them, she was succeeding spectacularly. I have told many stories on this forum involving Andrea, and she allows me, from time to time, to incorporate them as part of our foreplay. One night, I tried to initiate a story involving her and Trina, and Andrea shot me down quick. "I don't want to think about that woman while we're having sex!" she exclaimed disgustedly.
In truth, I do not want see Andrea get in a fight with Trina. Besides the fact that Trina would probably beat Andrea's beautiful ass and possibly hurt her, it would create irl problems at her workplace. Fantasizing about their fight, however, I find both harmless and arousing.
No, its not wrong at all. I think I have argued against the "wussification" of men for a long time. I want men to be men and stop with their so-called reservations and guilt.
If we choose to fight, we assume the risk involved. At that point, your task is to be supportive and helpful in the aftermath, and enjoy the show as it happens.